'It Works For Me"

9-20-2015
Sunday
Bishop Jakes


John 9:8-25

Back Story
(This is my translation on what happened)

There was a blind beggar that was sitting outside of the temple when Jesus and his disciples walked by. One of the disciples asked how did the man become blind, and the response was that he had been blind since birth. Jesus said "I must work, the works of him that sent me" (John 9:4). Basically, Jesus says, I'm going to heal this man. So He made clay out of dirt and His spit. Wiped it in the blind man's eyes and told him to go wash it off. When the man did so he could see. The Pharisees (High Priest) did not like this. Mainly because they did not like Jesus, but theydid not like the fact that He healed (work) on the Sabbath day. If you don't know, your not supposed to do anything on the Sabbath but worship God. Anything else is considered a sin. So the Pharisees befriended (fake-friended) the blind man, who which that they ignored for most of his life, to ask him questions about Jesus. After lots of interrogation finding that they could not get the man to change his story about what happened nor bad mouth Jesus, the blind man left the Pharisees with this statement, "Whether he be a sinner or no, I know not: one thing I know, that, whereas I was blind, now I see" (John 9:25). Translation, he told them I don't know if Jesus is a sinner or not, but I DO know I was blind and now I can see. I don't know what he's doing and how he did it, but it worked for me.

Notes

The enemy will try to attack you 3 way:

Methodology
The Pharisees became friends with the blind man, for the sole purpose to use him to get to Jesus. The wanted to find dirt on Him so they could condemn Him. Some may be trying to use you, just so they can destroy someone else. Beware of gossip, and bad mouthing. The enemy will try to use your mouth against someone else. There's a method to the madness.

Economy
Not only was the blind man, blind, he was poor. If he could only see, maybe he wouldn't be poor. On the other hand, if wasn't poor, maybe he could have go to a doctor to fix his sight. Have you ever been in a situation where you had one problem, then once you fixed it another problem popped up, then once you fixed that problem came up. You know how it goes: if its not one thing, its another. That's an attack of the enemy to distract you from the will of God and to keep you down.

Identity
We never knew the given name of  "The Blind Man". He is associated with his ailment and his short comings. Sometimes what you are going through will rob you of who you are. The enemy will attack you, and try to steel your identity. He will use people to put labels on you or try to put you in a category just so they can hate you better. Have you ever been called these names: The Drug Addict, The Girl with 3 kids and 3 different baby daddies, The Failure, The Low Life. This is an attack on your reputation. There is nothing that can kill a positive sprit more than someone that keeps bringing up a past that you are desperately trying to move on from.

There is something/someone in your life that affect all areas of your life. That one thing can take away our identity and make you feel like giving up. That bad breakup can have you so distressed that you may feel like you may want to end your life. The one bad decision you made may make you feel like you will never be able to recover. But God is about to give you your name back. You are in a season your life where you don't have to explain anything to anybody. All they need to know is that, whatever God is doing in your life, Works For You.







These are the words of Bishop T.D. Jakes, with a slight translation from me. These are the notes I took from Sunday's service that God put on my heart to share. I hope it make sense, and touch your heart.

Your Character Is Showing

Whether you are working for a living, going to school, or raising your kids, whatever you do, please take pride in it. Don’t do anything half-assed. Excuse the language, but that’s the only phrase that will best describe what I am talking about. Your work ethic says a lot about your character.  

 Last Friday at work one of my coworkers displayed very bad work ethic. Instead of making sure he had all of his work done, he was more focused on rushing through his work day so he could start his weekend plans. As a result, his carelessness made me end up being behind on my work.

Here’s what happened. This particular coworker is our courier/driver. His duties are to drop off and deliver mail and run errands for the Administrator, which could include getting her dry-cleaning and lunch. Well, he usually delivers the mail to our office around 11 o’clock. But Wednesday and Friday he was late. He didn’t bring the mail until 4 o’clock. Mind you our office close at 4:30. It takes about an hour or more to process the mail depending on how much mail there is. But that’s not what made me upset. In the type of work we do, we get really busy sometimes so I can understand that maybe he just forgot to bring me the mail. What made me upset is that I asked him for the mail around 3:30 which would have given me enough time to process it. By the time he pulled away from is irrelevant conversation with another coworker, it wasn’t until 4 o’clock that he brought me the mail. Leaving be less than 30 min to process it. I was so upset that I was shaking. I was going to confront him about but God intervened, cause he knew I would have went completely off on this guy. It wasn’t until writing this blog post that I realized that God was teaching me a lesson about good work ethic and humility.

In the Bible Zechariah 4:10 says, “Do not despise small beginnings…” If you google the back story on the most successful people, you’ll find that not one of them gained success over night. They started from the bottom and diligently worked their way up. It was the pride that they took in working the small seemingly insignificant jobs that humbled them and also prepared them for where they are now. The courier/driver guy I’m writing about is college educated. His job only pays about $10 an hour if that much so needless to say, he probably feels like this job is beneath him. But that’s no excuse for him not to take pride in his work. His lack of good work ethic says that he is selfish, inconsiderate, and untrustworthy. His lack of respect for other people’s time show that he is selfish and inconsiderate. The fact that he doesn’t take pride in his work means he is untrustworthy. If you can’t be trusted to do small jobs, how do you expect people to trust you to be responsible for bigger more serious task?




I would love to hear some feedback on this. Do you think a person’s work ethic is connected to their overall character as a person? If yes how so? 

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Welcome to my Blog.

At the beginning of the year, in fact New Year’s Eve, I made a vow to myself that I was going to get my life together before my 30^th birthday. I would get my professional life (work), love life, and spiritual life together. I thought I was the only one who knew that I made that vow to myself but of course God was listening. After a series of event that happened the following month, plus a visit from my Aunt, I decided to write down everything that happened to me. I wrote down every mistake I made, bad day, or just whatever I was struggling with in my life. Instead of just letting it sit in my journal, I decided to create a blog.

While attending an HR training class for work, the instructor told us the story about the Trouble Tree. If you’ve never heard the story I advise you to Google it. Basically, it’s a story about a Plummer, who like me decided to make a vow. His vow was to never bring any of the stress or troubles from work home. So, before he walked through the front door he would stop by a tree in the yard and transfer all the worries and cares from the day off his shoulder and hang them onto the limbs of the tree. Instead of hanging my cares and views of life on a live tree, I had the idea of making this blog my tree. Hints the name Nydia’s Trouble Tree. I feel like I have so much to say and some words of wisdom to give that wasn’t fit for social media. This blog is not just for me. I would like to share my Trouble Tree with you also. If you have anything you would like to discuss, or get off your chest feel free to do so.

With all that being said, feel free to join me as I hang my troubles on my Trouble Tree.

                                                                Live, Laugh, Love More and Take More Risks,

                                                                                         Nydia

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